I liked this,

. . . the disillusionment that comes from God brings us to the point where we see people as they really are, yet without any cynicism or any stinging and bitter criticism.  Many of the things in life that inflict the greatest injury, grief, or pain, stem from the fact that we suffer from illusions.  —Oswald Chambers

I’ll leave it with you to think about.

Things, and people, are never as they seem.